{"id":917,"date":"2018-04-05T15:45:26","date_gmt":"2018-04-05T14:45:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stuffbysofia.com\/blog\/?p=917"},"modified":"2018-04-06T15:40:10","modified_gmt":"2018-04-06T14:40:10","slug":"our-big-fat-greek-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stuffbysofia.com\/blog\/2018\/04\/our-big-fat-greek-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"Our big fat Greek wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The moment we decided to get married (yes, this happened) the world shifted. Not in some romantic googly eyes sort of way but in a social norms kind of way. People who tell you that &#8220;nothing changes&#8221;? They lie.<!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bg6F4mZlue-\/\" data-instgrm-version=\"8\">\n<div style=\"padding: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;\">\n<div style=\"background: url(data:image\/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc\/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5\/p8\/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo\/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli\/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif\/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/Bg6F4mZlue-\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#koufeta are sugar (and chocolate in this case) coated almonds that Greeks give at weddings and engagement parties. These are ours for my awesome colleagues on the occasion of our engagement (true story). In other news I miss my blog &#8211; so much insanity and surreal stuff happen when you plan a #wedding and I wish I could write about it all. &#x1f470;&#x1f935;<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">A post shared by <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sofiagk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Sofia Gk<\/a> (@sofiagk) on <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2018-03-29T12:48:14+00:00\">Mar 29, 2018 at 5:48am PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async defer src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Pelennor (yes, that&#8217;s his nickname) and my self are normal people with rock n roll parents. \u00a0We wanted a small intimate wedding so that we wouldn&#8217;t have to do too much or complicate our lives more than necessary. We though we can DIY it, we can cruise through, we can make sure that everyone is calm, collected and stays normal.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-top-left-radius: 2px; border-top-right-radius: 2px; border-bottom-right-radius: 2px; border-bottom-left-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: bold; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 11px; line-height: 20px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background-image: url(data:image\/svg+xml; base64,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); 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background-size: 14px 14px; background-color: #bd081c; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer; border: none; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-position: 3px 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p>This is not possible.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"giphy-embed\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/Tu5ObuZ1wG4pi\" width=\"480\" height=\"289\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/no-work-out-miss-piggy-Tu5ObuZ1wG4pi\">via GIPHY<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The reality is an endless stream of details that we would both consider idiotic under normal circumstances and yet, somehow, they either become important to us or (worse) they become important to people we love.<\/p>\n<p>I will not tire you out (this time around) with the complicated world of Greek pre-wedding ritual, introductions and gift giving but we are choreographing things like the most appropriate outfit for my dad to wear when Pelennor&#8217;s parents visit. Menu planning for the day has turned into a bit of a Roman feast preparation Marathon with my father asking whether it is appropriate to cook three mains and get the fourth (yes, THE FOURTH) from the marvellous local restaurant or if that would be a bit inappropriate. And this stuff is *important* because in the future we don&#8217;t wanna have to deal with a <a href=\"https:\/\/wiki.lspace.org\/mediawiki\/Nanny_Ogg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nanny Ogg<\/a> level of family feud following &#8220;<em>what they said about our Shirley<\/em>&#8221; or some such.<\/p>\n<p>I now realise that most of you married people out there had to deal with all this and I have a newfound respect for you &#8211; especially if you had a huge Greek\/ Cypriot\/ Italian etc. wedding of over 500 people. <strong>How the hell did you do it?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the meantime the wedding is in July, it is April, I have no dress (nor the appropriate self-selected weight to go find one) and no definitive list of things that still need to get done.<\/p>\n<p>And yet this is all incredibly fun and interesting &#8211; in a &#8220;oh my god I miss my blog&#8221; sort of way. The moment my mother said her first &#8220;I have an idea&#8221; was the moment when I wanted to sit down again and write. To exaggerate, to explain, to somehow construct a story that explains the world and the weird and wonderful things that are happening now that we decided to get married.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been a while. I know. I missed you too. 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